So I should probably do some sort of “year end wrap-up” type of post. You know, before 2006 is nothing but a distant memory. I’m kinda sad to see the old year go. After a couple of really, truly rough ones, 2006 was pretty darned decent to us. No one fell and broke anything, no one’s van got smashed up by a drunk driver in the middle of the night, no one needed any sort of emergency surgery (the c-section doesn’t count because it was totally planned). No one suffered any sort of crippling depression, so that’s a bonus.
In fact, good things happened this year. 2006 wasn’t just the absence of bad, it was the presence of good as well. The absence of bad would have been enough to make it a pretty darned good year (at least by comparison), but the good stuff pushes it over into a “Top Ten” sort of year. Harry started first grade and blew my mind away with how grown up he’s getting. He’s so smart, and getting so independent from us. It’s hard to have to let go, little by little. But it does my heart good to see what sort of young man he’s growing up to be. Watching him interact with his little brother is one of those things that will forever be imprinted upon my heart. My little design business blossoming and growing and evolving has been another wonderful thing this year. There are (many) times I get frustrated and burnt-out, but it’s fulfilling in so many other ways. It gives me a fabulous feeling of accomplishment. It’s also been a great year for blogging. I feel my blog has evolved in an amazing way and through it all, I’ve become a better writer. I’ve made a name for myself, even getting a paying gig with 451press. I went to BlogHer and not only learned some great things, but I met some great people as well. I really hope I’ll be able to go this year as well. The sky is the limit, right?
And, of course, this year saw the birth of Liam. I love this baby so much I can’t hardly believe it sometimes. Being a parent for the second time around is so incredible and so different. I find myself enjoying all the little things that I never took time to enjoy the first time around. There are days I feel I could do nothing more than just gaze at Liam adoringly and feel completely fulfilled. I still hate that we were denied our baby for so long, that we lost poor Jackson along the way, that we suffered such pain. But the end result is so much more than worth it. We are so blessed I can’t even find the words to express it all. I feel so much more complete today than I did a year ago, there’s no way I could have predicted I would feel this complete and just… happy.
But don’t let my word convince you. This was printed in my parent’s newspaper this week, the San Jose Mercury News. I thought it was a fantastic summation of a pretty successful year. See if you don’t agree. (read on after the jump) (this article is reprinted with no permission whatsoever. That said, please don’t sue me.)
The year we sort of grew up
By Joel Stein
We spent five years acting hysterically, like a nation that was in a fight with Ricky Ricardo. We were insane people, screaming about politics, shoving tiny American flags on the corners of our news shows, convincing ourselves that flipping houses was a real job. There was a moment there when we even considered shunning french fries.
But in 2006 it all changed. This was the year of adulthood, of sobriety, of pragmatism: the year of acting reasonably. The kind of year when you calmed down, thought it through, weighed your options and realized that there is no upside in telling the media that, yes, it does kind of suck when the vice president of the United States shoots you in the face.
All of a sudden, we decided to approach events unemotionally. In fact, we were downright boring. At this point in Vietnam, college kids were destroying campuses and growing incredibly unflattering facial hair. In 2006, we asked a bunch of retirees to meet for a study group about Iraq. If they had done a better job, we’d probably be moving on to solving the Palestinian issue with a book club. And the Iraq Study Group didn’t come up with the radical solution that everyone expected. Instead, it reasonably advised that — slowly, when no one is looking — we get the hell out of there.
It was such a serious, reasonable year that, in an affront to every study ever done about human psychology, millions of people willingly paid $7 to see Al Gore give a slide-show demonstration about carbon emissions.
Faced with the opportunity of giddily discovering a bunch more planets and getting people excited about space for the first time in 50 years, astronomers convened in the most sober of places, Prague, Czech Republic, and had their head astronomer guy declare that if tiny, wobbly Pluto is a planet, then my astronomer butt is a planet, too.
The symbol for this year was America’s most rational man, Warren Buffett, deciding that the best use of $37 billion was to give it away. It turns out you can sock away a lot of money by not getting new glasses since 1896.
Even people with a long record of insanity suddenly became well-reasoned deciders. President Bush fired Donald Rumsfeld. Whitney Houston divorced Bobby Brown. Britney Spears, the Elizabeth Taylor of our time, left Kevin Federline. Homeland Security responded to London’s liquid bomb plot by allowing us to put lotion in see-through bags. Donald Trump met with a troubled Miss USA and restrained himself from firing her. Ford got rid of the Taurus. Jack Abramoff, when arrested for corruption, had the good sense to literally wear a black hat. Alan Keyes walked out of an interview with Borat. Oprah lectured James Frey about the rigors of journalism. The Wiggles, unlike all child super groups before them, were able to pass leadership down in a bloodless transition.
When marketing campaigns tried to fool the masses, the masses rebuffed them using the complex risk-analysis skills we learned from Howie Mandel. As much as we loved talking about it, there was no way we were going to actually see “Snakes on a Plane.” We used E. coli as a brilliant excuse to stop eating spinach forever. We decided the best way to play video games isn’t fiddling with buttons on a PlayStation 3 but swinging the controller wildly like it was an actual sword or a tennis racket on our Wii’s. Being reasonable, it turns out, often makes us look even dorkier.
It’s as if we all got together and tried to prove that James Surowiecki book right. We voted Tucker Carlson as the first one off “Dancing With the Stars.” We quit pretending we were going to use Mario Batali’s tips on braising pig cheeks and instead watched intently as Rachael Ray showed us the proper way to cut the plastic off of food. It only took us one week to reject Katie Couric as a news source. We heard John Kerry try to tell a joke and decided it was not funny before we even figured out what he meant. We voted for Arnold Schwarzenegger because he made the environmental promises that Bush wouldn’t. And we otherwise voted for Democrats based solely on the fact that they were not Republicans.
Principles, we learned, are overrated in this complicated world. When crazy Muslims start killing people over harmless Muhammad cartoons, newspaper editors put aside their journalistic responsibilities, consider their own safety and stop running Muhammad cartoons. When Judith Regan decided to print a too-cleverly-titled book about O.J. sort of, kind of, not really confessing, we thought long and hard and realized there’s absolutely no reason there should be a publishing industry in Los Angeles.
People were so levelheaded, I wouldn’t be surprised if in the few days left in the year, everyone sells their hedge-fund shares.
If we keep this pragmatism up for a little longer, maybe we will have an ideology to export to the Middle East after all.
JOEL STEIN is a Los Angeles Times columnist.
