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by Marilyn on February 1, 2008

So I had my second perinatologist appointment today.  I walked in there feeling old school.  Like, “I’ve been here before, this is old hat to me now.”  And shoot, rounding up two boys not once but twice in one week to go to doctor appointments should get me SOME sort of recognition, don’t you think?  Even if Kile had to entertain the boys (by taking them to Sportsman’s Warehouse) while I was actually in the appointment today.  I read a little bit of a stale “People” magazine before I was called back and settled into the same ultrasound room as last time.

The first gal came to do the ultrasound and I remembered her from last time.  She’s very friendly.  She did all sorts of measurements on the baby (measuring: on time, weight: 3lbs 7oz) and even zoomed by the goods just to ensure that she hasn’t turned into a he in the last two weeks.  She hasn’t.  Still a girl.  Woot!  I was also feeling encouraged by the baby’s weight thus far.  Cute as his puny runt status has made him, I’d far rather not have another 4lb 15oz baby, thankyouverymuch.   So with 7-8 weeks left to go, I think it’s entirely conceivable that this gal will put on another two pounds at least, don’t you?  Of course, we then discovered that the little stinker has turned herself breech in there (again) with her head up by my ribs.  Now, I’m not terribly concerned because what does it matter?  I’m getting a c-section anyhow.  But I knew Kile would be upset.  He’s very nervous about babies being breech and then turning down at the last minute and getting all tangled up in the cord.  Gee, I wonder why?  But, as the gal said, there’s not much we can do about it.  And I’m choosing to be optimistic here.

Then she got down to business.  She was training another gal on how to do this kinds of ultrasound (she kept referring to it as an “MCA”) but I only understood maybe 10% of what she said.  Darn the medical community and their confusing acronyms! She did intriguingly tell the trainee that they don’t often do these MCA ultrasounds and that the patient has to meet some special criteria.  Oooh!  Made me wonder what this criteria was and what I had done to merit it.  Made me feel special, it did.

Then the doctor came in and he did the scan of the brain too.  He said that the numbers have gone up in two weeks, but not a whole lot.  Meaning, there’s nothing to get our panties in a bunch over quite yet.  He wants me back in two weeks to do another scan.  I mentioned to him my doctor wanting to know when would be best to do the c-section.  She was thinking 38 weeks, but wanted his input on if 37 would be better.  And, God bless him, he said he thought 37/38 would be perfect.  He actually said that 37 1/2 weeks was probably the best time.  Which, coincidentally enough, is exactly when I want to have this baby.  March 21st, oh yeah!  He said he’d include that in his note to her.  I felt like pumping my fist into the air.  He also mentioned that after 37 weeks that’s some uncharted territory with this whole MCA ultrasound thing so doing the c-section then might be good for peace of mind as well.

So all in all, I’d say that went well.   As well as a perinatologist appointment could go.  I’m back in two weeks, baby.

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San Francisco, here I come

by Marilyn on February 1, 2008

Before I delve into today’s stirring topic, I just want to comment really quickly on “LOST”.  Don’t worry, I’m not going to give up any plot points.  I just want to say how absolutely GIDDY I was during the entire show.  I was just so happy to have it back on my TV after all this reality TV nonsense and writer’s strike drudgery.  I could care less that they only answered maybe one or two things (and that would be a rather generous estimate) and asked about a bazillion more questions.  BRING IT ON.  I say as long as it’s on my TV and making me happy, they can ask all the questions they want.  I totally and thoroughly adored last night’s episode.  Plus, I feel like giving Hurley a hug.

Ahem.  Anyhow.  Where was I?

I’ve been thinking some about BlogHer this year.  It’s going to be in San Francisco, in case you weren’t aware.  And, as of this moment, I’m planning to go.  The logistics are still a little sketchy to me.  My parents live in San Jose, which is why it was so easy for me to go to BlogHer ‘06 when Liam was a mere 3 weeks old.  Kile would drop me off at the conference in the morning and pick me up in the evening.  I made sure Liam had enough pumped bottles for the day and brought a pump with me so that I could make some milk during the day. Easy peasy.  San Fransisco isn’t QUITE as convenient, but it’s only an hour’s drive away.  Evie will nearly be four months old and if need be, I suppose I could have her with me at the conference.  Of course, that will depend on many different factors.  If I am chosen as a speaker this year and they offer speakers free childcare again, that would be a perfect solution.  Otherwise, I could bring her with me to sessions and whatnot as long as she’s not the sort to cause a lot of disruption.  Worse came to worse, I could leave her with Kile but seeing as he’ll already have the two boys to deal with, I’m pretty sure that would make me the worst wife in all of creation.

Lots of stuff to consider.

Still, I’m planning on being there.  The only sad thing is a lot of people I really dig and people I met at BlogHer ‘07 last year are also pregnant and probably will not be making the trip.  I don’t know this for sure on some of them, but it’s an educated guess.  So that sucks that I won’t be able to stalk them and sit at their table for breakfast and fawn over how cool I think they are.  I’ll have to find other people to stalk and fawn over at breakfast.  So that’s where you come in.  Are you going to BlogHer this year?  Will you let me be your friend?  Will you tell me you like my blog even though you’ve only read it maybe two times and both those times you thought it was seriously lacking?  I need to know who all is going to be there.  I know Loralee is going and I’m way psyched about it because she is indeed fabulous.  Who else?  If you’re planning to attend, hoping to attend or even if you have to send your regrets, leave me a comment here and let me know.  I know it’s early and all that jazz, but I’m a planner and I like to know these things well in advance.  So step up to the roll call!  Help me out here, people!

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